Trellis · Family operating system

Built for the family you're actually trying to run.

One calm place for the week in front of you and the family you're building.

Trellis is in a small paid beta. We open new seats as the house gets sturdier.

The Trellis web app home: Cy's morning briefing, today's priorities, the next few hours, and every member of the family in one place

The real situation

One person carries the calendar. The other one asks “wait, what?” at 4:47 on a Tuesday.

The week runs you. Kids' practices, work, dinner, somebody's appointment. Both of you trying to remember what was decided in the kitchen on Sunday morning. Family time gets squeezed into the cracks.

Most families don't have a system. They have a household. There's a difference.

And most tools only carry half of it. The calendar app or the family-meeting book. Logistics or meaning. Trellis is built to hold both.

HOW IT WORKS

STEP 01 · THE WEEK

You set the rhythm.

Practice nights. Protected dinners. Sunday Family Meeting. Both of you on the same calendar, looking at the same week. Nobody's carrying it alone in their head.

Time & Rhythms · Week 12

This week

MON
TUE
WED
THU
FRI
SAT
SUN
9
12
3
6
Work
Work
Work
Work
Work
Jaiye practice5:00
Family dinner
Jaiye practice5:00
Meeting prep
Jaiye practice5:00
Family Meeting7:00
KidsHouseholdParents
3 practice nights

STEP 02 · THE CHIEF OF STAFF

Cy's paying attention.

He sees every pillar, every calendar, every pattern. Practice ran four nights two weeks in a row? He's not gonna lecture you. He'll ask one question and write down what y'all decide. The longer he's with you, the more he knows what's normal for your house.

Cy · Tuesday morning

Family chief of staff

7:04

Jaiye had practice three nights this week. Last week it was four. Do you want me to flag practice volume if it crosses three again?

7:04

Yeah, flag it.

Captured. I'll surface it on Sunday before the Family Meeting. One more. Kemi hasn't had protected time with a parent in two weeks. Want to hold Thursday?

7:04

Hold Thursday with me.

Held. Thursday night is yours and Kemi's. I'll remind you at 5 and move the grocery run to Wednesday.

7:05

Tell Cy anything

STEP 03 · THE FAMILY MEETING

Sunday holds the week.

Thirty minutes on Sunday night. Trellis pulls both calendars, walks you through the week day by day, and lands on five decisions you both commit to. Close with one prayer or one sentence. That's the habit that makes everything compound.

Family Meeting · In progress

Walking the week

Step 2 of 5 · Round the week

Lead tonight
K
Kendra
Audit
Round
Commit
Capture
Close
  • MON

    Kemi early release. Pickup covered.

    Remi

  • TUE

    Jaiye practice 5 pm. Dinner at 7.

  • WED

    Date night. Sitter 6 to 9.

    Kendra booked sitter

  • THU

    Kemi + parent time. Hold the night.

    Cy flagged

  • FRI

    Finance Friday, 9 pm.

  • SAT

    Family hike, weather permitting.

  • SUN

    Family Meeting 7 pm. Lead: Kendra.

Commits captured · 2

Sync to week 12

  • Hold Thursday night for Kemi + Remi.
  • Move grocery run to Wednesday evening.

STEP 04 · THE DASHBOARD

Monday hits different.

One screen. Both of you. Every pillar sorted by what's loud and what's quiet this week. You walk in clear, together, ready. Not scrambling.

Household

Sobomehin Household

Week 12 · April 20

R
K
J
M
S
03Check-in held

Partnership

Sunday · 28 min

04Pattern flagged

Raising Your Kids

Jaiye · practice volume

05Meeting ready

Time & Rhythms

Sunday 7:00 pm

06Finance Friday

Money

2 items to review

01Quiet

Who We Are

Last touched 12 days ago

Cy · Just now

Kemi hasn't had protected time with a parent in two weeks. Want to hold Thursday?

What's inside

Twelve pillars. The architecture of a family.

The lattice a family grows on · choose a crossing

01LIVE

Who We Are

Most families never actually say what they stand for, so the kids absorb it by accident. This is where you name it on purpose: your values, your story, the culture you're building. Comes back every quarter. Builds for decades.

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Remi and Kendra Sobomehin with their children Jaiye, Kemi, and Sadé

Who built this

We built Trellis for our own family first.

Remi and Kendra Sobomehin. Three kids: Jaiye, Kemi, Sadé. I'm the founder. Kendra's the co-founder with the PhD from Stanford in Education. We use what we build every morning.

This isn't a tech company guessing what families need. We needed this. We couldn't find it. So we made it.

Read our story on The House We Built

One price. Everything in.

$25 a month. Per family.

or $250/year. Save $50.

In a small paid beta now. Same price, no surprises later.

FAMILY PLAN

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WHAT YOU GET

  • All twelve pillars, live today
  • Unlimited Cy
  • Both parents, every kid
  • Every essay, podcast, and framework from The House We Built
  • Every pillar, feature, and update we ship in the future
  • Forever, at this price
  • Cancel anytime, one click
  • Works with one adult or two
  • Most families feel it in two weeks

Your family's gonna grow either way.

Real question is whether you give it something to grow on.

A small paid beta, $25 a month per family. New seats open as we grow.

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